Strong Mind with a Gentle Heart Change comes with time. I've been a "bad guy" for most of my life. All things happen for a reason, and it was time for my Change. I realized, in the last year, that writing is therapeutic for me. Also, that I had some meaningful things to say. I've written about a true life experience that I had, that I'm looking to have published or sell outright. I've also written several articles/blogs on my personal page on myspace/godsfave715. Feel free to check them out. I'm not looking to change the world, just inspire a positive thought in those willing to listen. I would like the chance to be able to inspire someone to be part of something great. I've come to realize that HONESTY, is ALWAYS the best route to take when trying to establish and maintain a healthy relationship with others.
Whom I'd like to meet...
PLATONIC: Cool folks who'd like to share their thoughts and ideas.
ROMANTIC: A woman that I can see myself being with, for the rest of my life, as my partner in all things. I have many positive things that I want to do. I'm looking for a smart attractive, open-minded, honest, sincere, conscious and willing to try, unpretentious and independent individual. She should be healthy, both mentally/physically, and willing/able to start a family.
									Focusedfella1, 54
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															About Me
					
								Gender
								Male
							
							
								Orientation
								
								Straight								
							
							
								Height
								5'10"
							
														
								Weight
								170 lbs
							
																					
								Hobbies & Interests
								writing, reading
							
														
								Body Type
								athletic, slim, fit
							
														
								Movies
								sci-fi, action
							
														
								Orientation
								straight
							
														
								Eye Color
								brown
							
														
								Hair Color
								bald
							
														
								Ethnicity
								African American
							
														
								Relationship
								single - never married
							
														
								Have Kids
								no - definitely want them though, no - maybe with the right person
							
														
								Education Level
								high school grad
							
														
								Profession
								Other
							
														
								Income level
								that's private
							
														
								Do you smoke?
								no - open to dating smokers though
							
														
								Do you drink?
								no
							
														
								I currently live
								with roommate(s)
							
														
								Socially, I am
								shy at first, but warm up quickly
							
														
								Political Views
								not interested in politics
							
														
								Food Related
								Junk Food Junkie
							
														
								Personality
								intellectual
							
														
								Religious Views
								Not Religious, but Spiritual
							
														
								I'm looking for
								the yin to my yang, soulmate, romance, relationship, miss right, conversation
							
														
								My Sign
								sagittarius : nov. 22-dec. 21
							
														
								Gender
								Male
							
														
								Music
								R and B, Motown, Hip Hop
							
														
								Fitness & Sports
								weightlifting, running
							
													Looking for
					
								Their Body Type
								a few extra pounds, fit, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous, average, athletic
							
														
								Movies
								action, comedy, drama, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
							
														
								Orientation
								straight
							
														
								Eye Color
								black, blue, brown, gray, green, hazel
							
														
								Their Ethnicity
								African American, Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Native American, Inter-racial, Other, Pacific Islander
							
														
								Relationship
								widowed, single - never married, single, divorced
							
														
								Have Kids
								no - definitely want them though, no - maybe with the right person, yes - single parent home, yes - grown and out of the house
							
														
								Their Education Level
								some college, post-Graduate, high school grad, currently in college, college grad
							
														
								Do they smoke?
								no - open to dating smokers though, no - will not date a smoker
							
														
								Do they drink?
								socially, no
							
														
								They currently live
								with roommate(s), with pets, with kids, alone, family and friends visit often
							
														
								Socially, they are
								shy at first, but warm up quickly
							
														
								Political Views
								independent, democrat, not interested in politics
							
														
								Food Related
								Junk Food Junkie, Soul Food
							
														
								Personality
								romantic, lover, liberal, intellectual, fun loving, activist
							
														
								Religious Views
								Christian, Not Religious, but Spiritual
							
														
								They are looking for
								soulmate, romance, relationship, penpal, mr. right, dating, conversation, the yin to my yang
							
														
								Gender
								Female
							
														
								Music
								Motown, Gospel, Hip Hop, House, Jazz, R and B, Pop
							
														
								Health Related
								meditation
							
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